My opinion if you love someone deeply. Cheating does matter to me. Regardless he can do everything in the world to make me happy. A cheating spouse will destroy my heart. If both mates have cheated on each other that's a different story.If the love is strong therfore they can forgive each other and start over. For this to happen there was empty space somewhere. Some people have envy so bad. They'll do anything to break people up. Personally, people try Jay and I everyday. I mean everyday!