I think naturally been a female u tend to let ur emotions get involved. But on the real if you n a good relationship, & you'll been 100 from the jump. Let him do him, cause u know he's comin back, them other bitches r pussy, u doin wat they not that's why his ass comes home. Know, a bitch can do hers to, but she got that main dude! Its all a matter of understand, but can we plz be safe and not bring shit home.